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Sis Faridah M.S.

“In 2012, I left my job in the entertainment industry and was jobless. I was resolute of not returning to the same line of industry and was hanging out with a friend who was then volunteering in Sarang Cafe. I was recommended and was paid to work first as a dishwasher and later as a waitress in the cafe.

Mashaallah. I held a managerial post in my past employments but honestly, being a dishwasher at Sarang Cafe has benefited me the most. I learnt and saw the moral values and etiquette of my fellow workers, especially from (the owner) Abang Aydarus and his wife, Sis Jahan. Never once did I feel judged despite my bad habits (smoking etc) and my way of dressing. Everything in Sarang was simple and is as taught and shared in Revamp, l could see, feel and experience adab (high moral values and good etiquette) in Sarang as displayed by the owners and my co-workers and that motivated me to try to change. Never once was l forced to change. Everything came from the sharing sessions held at Revamp (then above Sarang cafe), the constant reminders by co-workers and the owners, and their exemplary character and attitude towards one another. I discovered Sarang and Revamp at a strange time in my life. And I have benefited greatly from being in Sarang and Revamp. The friends that I have made here are definitely for keeps. I am forever thankful for Revamp and Sarang cafe.

Alhamdulillah. Revamp has taught me the values of being human, of our purpose here. I learnt and am now striving to serve my mom and to maintain kinship ties. I spend most of my time now with my mom and my sister at home. We are constantly trying and helping each other in our daily struggles. I spend some time now visiting other family members and the elderly as well. I was hostile to my neighbours once but now I try to mend our relationship. I used to feel empty but Alhamdulillah I no longer feel that way. I no longer indulge in my bad habits and I have learnt not to waste time and speak of things that do not benefit me in any way. Revamp has taught and encouraged me to constantly strive to be a better servant of Allah, a better daughter, neighbours, friend, and to always be God-conscious..”

Faridah binte Mohamed Salleh